Sometimes we get stressed..

Parenting is Absolutely the most difficult job in the world.. We have to become better people and learn different ways of dealing with issues. New issues arise all the time, & No matter how grown up we are we still have to change to make it work. I have been finding it difficult to get my 3 year old to listen to me.. HA! But ALL Parents have this problem with kids that age. When I say it is Bedtime he tends to want to play, when even 5 minutes ago he said he was tired. Trying to tell a child what to do is like telling the Sky not to be blue, It's impossible.. That is why I am changing all the time to try to get my sons to understand that I NEED them to listen to me. Often times I want to Throw my hands up and walk out, but of course I can't do that.. I have to be loving and understanding even when I am at my wits end. I want nothing more than to let my kids have anything they want and do whatever they want.. But that is not the right way to raise them.. They are boys/ Children and boundaries/ Rules are important. it is mine & My Husbands parenting that will mold them into Men, & Boy I want them to be good men. I follow in the Footsteps of my parents because I believe they did a great job with my Brother and I, I also listen to the advice from my friends who are also parents... But sometimes it is only You who can make a difficult situation better. My Children are my life, & I always worry that I am hindering their Growth because I am too stressed out or I just don't want to deal with it. I feel it is natural for all of us to feel like we are doing a crappy job.. We are always trying to be the best but truly it is impossible to be the best all the time. We can't be perfect parents.. & we all have the same struggles. I Struggle with "Am I doing a good job raising my kids" All the time. Just follow your heart and everything will fall into place. Always be who you are, be the loving parent that your kids are proud of.. Create a loving environment for your family. If you have the same Struggles feel free to comment! We are all here to support each other, not to judge.