Thursday, October 24, 2013

What it was & What it is...

When I first started this Blog it Was mostly about The Awesome Products, & Recruiting others to join my team... But Now this Blog is about my life, It's about the struggles & Challenges of a stay at home Mom. There is nothing that gives me more Joy than being with my children and raising them how I see fit.. Sometimes people can bring you down and Judge your parenting, Like they know Best. It's hurtful & Untrue, because we are all good parents, because we are all different and we have different parenting styles. There is no wrong way to raise a child (UNLESS you are neglectful & Abusive towards them). You just have to look back at how you were raised, remember the wonderful things your parents did to make you who you are today.. I was Lucky enough to have been raised by the two most loving/ Supportive parents in the world.. I use a lot of the tools that were given to me by them to raise my boys. I don't want to tell You how to raise your babies.. I just want to give you confidence that you Can/ Are doing a Great Job. The simple fact that you LOVE your children is a great start! Just don't let anyone bring you down... Don't let the monsters shrink your heart and your ability to be a Good parent. Those are the Monsters that you don't want to even be associated with you & your family, Even if they are family themselves. Sometimes you need to take a break, Step Back, & View from a different perspective.. Don't view from your Mind, View from your heart.. Because we all know those two things can give you mixed messages.. Those two things can make you react in different ways. It's OKAY to be hurt when someone makes you feel like an unfit/ or bad parent, It's OKAY to be angry (I know I was when it happened to me)... But I stepped out of myself for a little bit, I was able to see how Great my children are, & That I was the reason for their greatness! Don't be afraid to Defend you & Your children.. Don't be afraid to lose people you THINK are important in your life, Because if they are the ones making you feel any less than your best then they are not worth your time. Yes, This is a personal matter to me.. It's something that has changed me and made me Stronger, I have thicker skin now. I still have emotional scars, I still have my moments where I am angry.. But I wake up each day & Pull myself together so I can be a good mother to my Sons. Stay STRONG Mommies! Be Mama Bear & Defend your parenting & Your babies!

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